My Mom has been crafting a lot lately. She is planning this fabulous boutique for next winter and is preparing early. Sometimes, she tries to explain her ideas to me and I’ll be like, “Uh-huh. Who are you and what did you do with my Mom?”
Actually, I only say the “uh-huh” part and then think the rest. But I’m sure she can see the doubt on my face when she is in the middle of explaining some elaborate idea.
The latest thing was basket making. She likes to recycle and reuse other things so she decided that she would use wire fence to make a basket.
I know, right? I was preparing the wanted, “Mom” posters in my mind.
Anyways, I just smiled while she explained it and then went on to other things. I mean, fence is fence and baskets are baskets…No.
However, when my Mom did finally make a basket from fence wire and it actually kind of worked (after, um, a few tries). I was impressed.
Teal (I promise, this all comes together at the end)
The other day I saw someone outside wearing teal and I told my friend Cory that the person outside really shouldn’t be wearing teal because it was NOT their color and blah blah blah.
A little while later, Cory said that teal was his favorite color. (It wasn’t completely out of the blue, by the way, it just came up in conversation.)
After I got over feeling awful for bashing someones favorite, I listened to WHY teal was his favorite color. He told me that teal was a cool color because you can wear it and it’s not overboard but still sort of sticks out. Like instead of wearing something appalling or bright, you are wearing something that is more than un-noticeable, simply different.
“Gone, Gone, Gone” is one if Phillip Phillips songs, if you didn’t know. I really like it ’cause it is fun to listen to, nice on the ears in a strange drumming way.
It came on the radio today and my friend Aisling was like, “Oh, this is the cancer song!”
I looked at her like she was certifiably crazy, “I don’t think so…”
“I could be wrong, but I think it is!” Aisling informed me. She then went on to explain that she thought Phillip Phillips was singing it to his girlfriend or wife about how he would take care of them when they were sick. “I’ll share in your suffering/To make you well, to make you well” and so on.
It was an impressive explanation but I replied with, “I think it’s about breaking up or her leaving him because…” Wait, why did I think that, again? Maybe I was the crazy one!
Yes, they relate
I think maybe I should, you know, listen to other people more. And assume less. Maybe sometimes, my opinion isn’t right or the best one (Mind blowing, right?). I mean…
A. I thought basket making with wire fence wouldn’t work and it actually did.
B. I thought teal sucked as a color but I bought a teal shirt and wore it and I felt pretty cool.
C. I assumed that “Gone, Gone, Gone” was just another breakup song and it probably isn’t.
So I’ve come to a conclusion. If it were New Year’s Day, this would be my resolution for the year. However it’s not, so it’s just…a decision.
I am going to listen to people. Listen to opinions. I’m going to try not to assume and possibly get rid of the “are you crazy?” face expression (okay, maybe not that one). I’m going to try and have an open mind because it seems that I’m not always right, after all 😉 I also plan to try things other people’s way, a different way, because I don’t want to just be stuck with the status quo.
I told you they related.